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Thei Zervaki is a writer living in New York, who gets invited to many events and parties. She has recently published a book: Get Invited, don’t crash it:
, which gives tips on getting invites to events and networking.
Any tips for artists wanting to network or market a show?
Artists can be very “artistic” and they forget completely about marketing and promoting their work. First of all, make your message clear. When guests visit your studio, gallery or any other space where you exhibit your paintings (or any other work), say that it is for sale! It is so simple, but artists do not say it.
I remember I attended the Chelsea Gallery Studio Walk last spring and when I was visiting a studio, the artist clearly stated that all her paintings were on sale, making the comment that she never did in the past! Guests do not know if an artist wants to sell or not so being honest about it, will help you sell.
Second, do not accept the common belief that artists die poor or do not make a lot of money. This is not true. There are and will always be buyers of your art, usually more affluent people. So, your job is to locate your buyers, your target audiences.
Third, have a nice online presence (blog, website, ebay site, etsy.com, facebook.com page etc). A wealthy friend of mine only buys online and his paintings are very unique and rather expensive. Finding an agent may help but maybe not, that depends on your personal situation. Overall, “see” your art as a business, not just a way to express your feelings…
Is your book self-published or did you find a publisher?
It is a self-published book. I didn’t follow the traditional path of getting an agent who then would “sell” me to a publisher. Although a safe path to sales, it is far too slow for my impatient nature, so I decided to self-publish using Get Published: Take your book from manuscript to the masses with CreateSpace
, an amazon platform.
Have you any tips for anyone wanting to publish a book?
First, you need to come up with an interesting idea, not yet explored so your angle is crucial. Then, you need to actually write the book (because we all have a book inside us but this is where it stays most of the time). Don’t get stressed out with the timing, just follow your instincts but have a “first” deadline. If you want to look for an agent, just email them while you do your writing. Most of the times, a rejection will follow but don’t give up. In today’s environment, anything is possible. But this is only 50% of the job. After getting published, you have a lot of work to do to market and promote it. Be willing to spend some money as well! So, you get the picture (I am talking about non-fiction).
I found your point about constantly creating “busyness” as a way of avoiding what you really should be doing very true for me. What are your tips for avoiding “avoidance”?
First, find what you really, really, really desire. This is the most difficult step to avoid the busyness. Then, focus on this desire. Take all the actions that they will help you implement this desire. For example: you really, really, really desire to start a side catering business providing food to local events. Don’t fake it and say that I’d rather paint my house, go to the gym or book a trip to Paris (finding all sorts of excuses to support the “second” best choice). Start taking small, baby steps to achieve it. Buy the ingredients, cook, send out some sample food to local event organisers, put some adverts together etc.
I strongly believe that there are many reasons for this “busyness” or “avoidance”. Maybe we are not ready to actually “do” it, we feel insecure, not qualified enough, we are afraid of rejection or we just procrastinate. I would even dare to say that “busyness” or “avoidance” is laziness. When it comes to parties and invitations, many (and that includes me from time to time), accept invitations and go to events that they do not serve them just to say that they are out and about. Having clear objectives about your choices in life is paramount to avoid wasting your time.
I notice in your book that you are critical of shy people. To quote:
I am not personally a great believer in shy people. I know the large majority of social psychologies would disagree, arguing that shyness is hereditary, a social disorder or even a gene. I would argue, though, that those labeled “shy” often are aloof, self-centered and attention needy. Or they simply do not know how to start socializing more. They just need some help.
If someone is claiming to be shy, what advice would you give them? How can shyness be overcome?
I don’t believe in shy people. Having said that I don’t imply that human beings have the same level of “social openness”. Some are far more open and extravagant than others. It doesn’t mean that the less open are shy, they just need a little more help. I talked to a number of psychologists (with PhDs) and they do not seem to agree: some say that it is in our genes, others agree with my statement that shyness is self-centeredness. I would say that if you feel “shy” and you don’t like it, don’t push yourself too hard but make an effort: talk to a few people you don’t know during the week, smile at your bank manager, invite a friend for dinner. Slowly, you will feel better about yourself and your social skills. As I say in my book, nobody is born a socialite or a party-goer. We can all become one.
What was the best event you ever attended?
It was Harvey Nicks in London. Pure luxury! Expensive champagne on all floors, sample food, music, well-dressed guests and more champagne. I experienced something similar on a smaller scale in NYC at the Mercedes-Bentley event. Excellent food, numerous cocktails and expensive cars. The Chelsea Market After Dark event during the NY Food and Wine show in 2010 was amazing. Champagne, cocktails, mouthwatering food and some local celebrities…
What was the funniest moment you’ve witnessed at an event?
Someone who, while trying to attack a meatball almost broke a sculpture! I think that galleries should only provide wine and some mixed nuts otherwise it is a disaster. Party crashers entering parties un-invited is interesting to watch; they do it most of the time!
Have you specialized in a particular area, or do you still accept invitations to a diverse range of events?
I usually attend culinary and wine events and shows, but I go to store openings and gallery receptions. And I don’t do political events…
Do you find how events are organized and promoted in the US different from the UK?
Not really. In the UK, I was in the business world so I was attending networking business events. Some of them were luxurious, others more professional but overall very well organised with selected guests, expensive wine and food. In the US, I became a blogger and then a journalist, and I attend PR events as a member of the press so they are more casual with a different purpose. Most of them are very interesting.